Pippa Parfait
 
 
 
True belonging starts
at home; with you!
 
 
 
 
 
 
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As human beings we have a fundamental need to belong and to connect to each other, and true belonging begins with belonging to yourself first.

 

 

Not belonging to yourself wears many hats: overworking, people-pleasing, plate-spinning, over-proving, meeting everyone else’s needs before your own and many more.

 

 

I believe that belonging to yourself isn't just desirable, it's essential; it isn't just an act of rebellion against the “system”, it's an act of revolution!

 

 

I believe that each and every one of us has not just a right, but a responsibility, to do the work to belong to ourselves, so that we can show up in this complex world, able to do our work with others (whatever that work may be).

 

IF YOU WANT TO START THE WORK OF BELONGING TO YOURSELF, YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE.

 
 
 

Hi I’m Pippa and I can help…

I work as a Personal Leadership Coach to help Extraordinary Humans to belong to themselves. I use the Four Pillars of Belonging to support my clients to build a home within themselves, and to live, love & lead, their way. You can find out more about how I work with my clients here.

 
 
 

ARE YOU LIVING, LOVING AND LEADING YOUR WAY?

 

So why "belonging to yourself" &
what is Personal Leadership?

Committing to belonging to yourself is the first step in an uprising to bring about a wider belonging in our work, communities and at home, and it is one that is much needed in the world right now. And there’s no time to waste either as we have one hell of a job to do!

Every one of us has a universal responsibility to grow into the very best version of ourselves, with all the “difficult” bits - especially those bits.

Personal leadership is distinct from say, corporate or organisational leadership. Yes it is 100% for anyone is a position of leadership in their work, communities or homes, but it’s more than that. Personal leadership is about becoming the very best version of you, so that you can lead others from that place.

 
 
 

BELONGING TO YOURSELF IS: BUILDING A SAFE AND SECURE HOME WITHIN YOURSELF WHERE, BEFORE YOU LOOK TO BELONG TO ANY GROUP, PLACE OR SITUATION, YOU MUST FIRST BELONG TO YOURSELF.

 
 
 

Find out your
Core Personal Values

KNOW Yourself is one of the Four Pillars of Belonging to Yourself. When we live, love and lead in a way that honours our values, we feel safe and fulfilled.

Do you know your Core Personal Values? Are you living, loving and leading by them? Find out more about my FREE three-week values programme.

 
 
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TRUE BELONGING IS THE SPIRITUAL PRACTICE OF BELIEVING IN AND BELONGING TO YOURSELF SO DEEPLY THAT YOU CAN SHARE YOUR MOST AUTHENTIC SELF WITH THE WORLD AND FIND SACREDNESS IN BOTH BEING A PART OF SOMETHING AND STANDING ALONE IN THE WILDERNESS. TRUE BELONGING DOESN’T REQUIRE YOU TO CHANGE WHO YOU ARE; IT REQUIRES YOU TO BE WHO YOU ARE.

BRENÉ BROWN

 
 
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WAYS WE CAN WORK TOGETHER

Find out how I can support you on your personal leadership journey to belong to yourself.

 
 

WORDS, WISHES & WONDERINGS

My own personal leadership journey to belonging to myself. Belonging, courage, vulnerability, social action and the odd cat or two.

 
 

BACH FLOWER REMEDIES

Online and in person sessions using Flower Remedies to help balance your emotions and heal yourself naturally.

 

SUCCESS STORIES

What They Said

 
“My no’s are defined by my values and what I believe in. This is my compass. If the decisions I have do not conform within my value system, it’s a no. I don’t make excuses. I have set my boundaries and it’s not for me to comply. It’s for the others who want to be within my framework. Like you said, I might not be for everyone, yet I might be for someone and that’s what I’ve learned from you.”

DEBBERA B, COACHING CLIENT

“I’ve had a long-standing habit of being ‘too nice’ and putting up with other people’s bad behaviour. I needed to get to know myself, to figure out what would set my world on fire! I used to go through life trying not to be noticed…now I love myself enough to embrace who I really am and I have no fear about showing my true self. I used to want everyone to like me, as an introvert giving so much of myself away. Now I give myself the time and care to regain my energies for life’s challenges.”

JOANNA A, COACHING CLIENT

"When we first met I wanted to spend some time working out what made me tick as I felt quite alone and undervalued. Through our work together I came to understand that for women like me, apparently confident and articulate, it is still OK to feel like a failure and not feel confident 100% of the time. We had a lot of laughs and some heartfelt tears. It has been a life affirming experience which has really helped me be brave, show compassion for myself and be more confident to carve out time for me and my family too."

MELISSA M, COACHING CLIENT